Happy Marriages

Here are some things to consider in marriage. Sometimes it is what seems like the "little things" that add up to the big things and make a marriage happy. God has blessed me with almost 12 years of marriage to Cody and as I anticipate the privilege of growing old with her I pray that I will always remember these "little things:"

• We are never too old to hold hands with our spouses


• Remember to say "I love you" to your spouse at least once every day


• Compliment your spouse each day. Make sure they know they are valued and important to you.


• Stay romantic


• Try not to go to sleep angry at your spouse


• Believe the best. Live in the appreciation room rather than the depreciation room


• Always stand together with your spouse to face the world as a team


• Express gratitude to your spouse


• Never go too long without doing a thoughtful deed or act of kindness for your spouse


• Develop the capacity to forgive and forget


• Live by encouragement rather than by expectations that are too high. Allow your spouse to be human and provide an atmosphere for growth


• Always remember the positive qualities that made you fall in love with your spouse


• Remember that it is not only about marrying the right partner, but it is also about BEING the right partner


• Thank God every day for blessing you with your spouse

I have always admired so much the "older couples" that I have known throughout my life who have set such great examples of what happy marriages mean. I hope my wife and I can do the same for others as we get older.

Have a great weekend!